drm/i915/uapi: expose the avail tracking

Vulkan would like to have a rough measure of how much device memory can
in theory be allocated. Also add unallocated_cpu_visible_size to track
the visible portion, in case the device is using small BAR. Also tweak
the locking so we nice consistent values for both the mm->avail and the
visible tracking.

v2: tweak the locking slightly so we update the mm->avail and visible
tracking as one atomic operation, such that userspace doesn't get
strange values when sampling the values.

Testcase: igt@i915_query@query-regions-unallocated
Testcase: igt@i915_query@query-regions-sanity-check
Signed-off-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Cc: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Lionel Landwerlin <lionel.g.landwerlin@intel.com>
Cc: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Jon Bloomfield <jon.bloomfield@intel.com>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Cc: Jordan Justen <jordan.l.justen@intel.com>
Cc: Kenneth Graunke <kenneth@whitecape.org>
Cc: Akeem G Abodunrin <akeem.g.abodunrin@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20220629174350.384910-3-matthew.auld@intel.com