drm/msm/dp: postpone irq_hpd event during connection pending state

irq_hpd event can only be executed at connected state. Therefore
irq_hpd event should be postponed if it happened at connection
pending state. This patch also make sure both link rate and lane
are valid before start link training.

Signed-off-by: Kuogee Hsieh <khsieh@codeaurora.org>
Signed-off-by: Rob Clark <robdclark@chromium.org>