vfio/mdev: embedd struct mdev_parent in the parent data structure

Simplify mdev_{un}register_device by requiring the caller to pass in
a structure allocate as part of the parent device structure.  This
removes the need for a list of parents and the separate mdev_parent
refcount as we can simplify rely on the reference to the parent device.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tony Krowiak <akrowiak@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Kirti Wankhede <kwankhede@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Farman <farman@linux.ibm.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220923092652.100656-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>