d3d11videosink: Expects window handle to be set in READY state already
This is too early and does not work with playbin/playsink as those are setting the state to READY before adding to the pipeline to ensure that it works correctly. That way it's impossible currently for the application to set the window handle.
See https://lists.freedesktop.org/archives/gstreamer-devel/2020-December/077034.html for a log where that happens.