xwayland/selection: rename Wayland-facing data and helpers
Created by: Xyene
Previously, wlr_xwm_selection_transfer.source_fd meant:
- the source of data in a Wayland -> X11 copy (good)
- the destination of data in a X11 -> Wayland copy (confusing)
This made reading through xwayland/selection/incoming.c difficult: in many places, "source" actually means "destination".