drm/i915: Add flex arrays to struct i915_syncmap

The "struct i915_syncmap" uses a dynamically sized set of trailing
elements. It can use an "u32" array or a "struct i915_syncmap *"
array.

So, use the preferred way in the kernel declaring flexible arrays [1].
Because there are two possibilities for the trailing arrays, it is
necessary to declare a union and use the DECLARE_FLEX_ARRAY macro.

The comment can be removed as the union is now clear enough.

Also, avoid the open-coded arithmetic in the memory allocator functions
[2] using the "struct_size" macro.

Moreover, refactor the "__sync_seqno" and "__sync_child" functions due
to now it is possible to use the union members added to the structure.
This way, it is also possible to avoid the open-coded arithmetic in
pointers.

Link: https://www.kernel.org/doc/html/next/process/deprecated.html#zero-length-and-one-element-arrays [1]
Link: https://www.kernel.org/doc/html/next/process/deprecated.html#open-coded-arithmetic-in-allocator-arguments

 [2]
Signed-off-by: Erick Archer <erick.archer@gmx.com>
Reviewed-by: Kees Cook <keescook@chromium.org>
Signed-off-by: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240208181318.4259-1-erick.archer@gmx.com