meson: add idep_mesautil to components using simple_mtx.h
If valgrind is installed, these components need to find valgrind.h.
Fixes: 53f7d539 ("util: Add helgrind support for simple_mtx") Closes: #3876
GitLab will be down for maintenance Monday June 03, from approx 10am UTC for roughly 48 hours. This is for a major gitlab upgrade which requires a DB migration. See the tracker issue for more informations.
If valgrind is installed, these components need to find valgrind.h.
Fixes: 53f7d539 ("util: Add helgrind support for simple_mtx") Closes: #3876