net: bridge: mst: Add helper to query a port's MST state

This is useful for switchdev drivers who are offloading MST states
into hardware. As an example, a driver may wish to flush the FDB for a
port when it transitions from forwarding to blocking - which means
that the previous state must be discoverable.

Signed-off-by: Tobias Waldekranz <tobias@waldekranz.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Oltean <olteanv@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>