bdev: remove SLAB_MEM_SPREAD flag usage

The SLAB_MEM_SPREAD flag is already a no-op as of 6.8-rc1, remove
its usage so we can delete it from slab. No functional change.

Signed-off-by: Chengming Zhou <zhouchengming@bytedance.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240224134646.829105-1-chengming.zhou@linux.dev


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>