bpf: Fail uprobe multi link with negative offset

Currently the __uprobe_register will return 0 (success) when called with
negative offset. The reason is that the call to register_for_each_vma and
then build_map_info won't return error for negative offset. They just won't
do anything - no matching vma is found so there's no registered breakpoint
for the uprobe.

I don't think we can change the behaviour of __uprobe_register and fail
for negative uprobe offset, because apps might depend on that already.

But I think we can still make the change and check for it on bpf multi
link syscall level.

Also moving the __get_user call and check for the offsets to the top of
loop, to fail early without extra __get_user calls for ref_ctr_offset
and cookie arrays.

Signed-off-by: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20231217215538.3361991-2-jolsa@kernel.org