io_uring: split out cmd api into a separate header

linux/io_uring.h is slowly becoming a rubbish bin where we put
anything exposed to other subsystems. For instance, the task exit
hooks and io_uring cmd infra are completely orthogonal and don't need
each other's definitions. Start cleaning it up by splitting out all
command bits into a new header file.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/7ec50bae6e21f371d3850796e716917fc141225a.1701391955.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>