If we don't trap EEXIST and its Windows equivalent, we are unable to
detect the situation where we create an ostensibly unique
subdirectory in a shared /tmp, but an attacker has already created it.
This affects dbus-nonce (the nonce-tcp transport) and the activation
reload test.

Add a new _dbus_ensure_directory() for the one case where we want it to
succeed even on EEXIST: the DBUS_COOKIE_SHA1 keyring, which we know
we are creating in our own trusted "official" $HOME. In the new
transient service support on Bug #99825, ensure_owned_directory()
would need the same treatment.

We are not treating this as a serious security problem, because the
nonce-tcp transport is rarely enabled on Unix and there are multiple
mitigations.

The nonce-tcp transport creates a new unique file with O_EXCL and 0600
(private to user) permissions, then overwrites the requested filename
via atomic-overwrite, so the worst that could happen there is that an
attacker cou...