drm/amdgpu/gfx12: set UNORD_DISPATCH in compute MQDs

This needs to be set to 1 to avoid a potential deadlock in
the GC 10.x and newer.  On GC 9.x and older, this needs
to be set to 0. This can lead to hangs in some mixed
graphics and compute workloads.

Closes: drm/amd#3575


Reviewed-by: Hawking Zhang <Hawking.Zhang@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>
(cherry picked from commit 40318a24)