drm/amdgpu: rework how isolation is enforced v2

Limiting the number of available VMIDs to enforce isolation causes some
issues with gang submit and applying certain HW workarounds which
require multiple VMIDs to work correctly.

So instead start to track all submissions to the relevant engines in a
per partition data structure and use the dma_fences of the submissions
to enforce isolation similar to what a VMID limit does.

v2: use ~0l for jobs without isolation to distinct it from kernel
    submissions which uses NULL for the owner. Add some warning when we
    are OOM.

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Acked-by: Srinivasan Shanmugam <srinivasan.shanmugam@amd.com>