drm/amdkfd: fix and enable debugging for gfx11

There are a couple of fixes required to enable gfx11 debugging.

First, ADD_QUEUE.trap_en is an inappropriate place to toggle
a per-process register so move it to SET_SHADER_DEBUGGER.trap_en.
When ADD_QUEUE.skip_process_ctx_clear is set, MES will prioritize
the SET_SHADER_DEBUGGER.trap_en setting.

Second, to preserve correct save/restore priviledged wave states
in coordination with the trap enablement setting, resume suspended
waves early in the disable call.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan Kim <jonathan.kim@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Felix Kuehling <felix.kuehling@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>