avviddec: Fix huge leak caused by circular reference

AVBufferRef -> GstFFMpegVideoDecVideoFrame -> GstVideoCodecFrame -> AVBufferRef

Instead of holding additional ref there, set read-only which would not be
reused by ff_reget_buffer()

Fixes: gstreamer/gst-libav#63
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