meson: delete dri3 build option
What does this MR do and why?
meson: delete dri3 build option
this existed for historical reasons, but realistically now it should
be possible to build mesa with dri3 always enabled. additionally,
this check was often used as a substitute for having drm functionality,
which is sort of similar but also not really a direct match
this simplifies a bunch of conditionals and prevents users from footgunnning
themselves into orbit