vulkan: Switch everyone to a common vk_error helper

We wrote one of these for ANV way back in the day because it was helpful and everyone else has since copied+pasted it. Most of them copied+pasted from RADV which converted thiers to take an instance so errors could get logged through VK_EXT_debug_report but ANV's never got that treatment. The new one logs through the new logging framework added in !10318 (merged). Now everyone should be getting errors showing up both through VK_EXT_debug_report and VK_EXT_debug_utils.