lavapipe: vulkan 1.3 support

tracker for remaining features/issues:

• EXT_subgroup_size_control - !15354 (merged)
• maintenance4 - !15378 (merged)
• KHR_vulkan_memory_model - !15377 (merged)
• copy_commands2 - done
• format_feature_flags2 - !15395 (merged)
• VK_EXT_texel_buffer_alignment
• VK_KHR_shader_integer_dot_product - !15384 (merged)
• VK_EXT_pipeline_creation_cache_control - !15379 (merged)
• VK_EXT_pipeline_creation_feedback - !15379 (merged)
• VK_EXT_inline_uniform_block - !15457 (merged)
• VK_EXT_shader_demote_to_helper_invocation - !15402 (merged)
• VK_EXT_image_robustness - !15388 (merged)
• VK_KHR_shader_terminate_invocation - !15402 (merged)
• VK_KHR_zero_initialize_workgroup_memory - !15403 (merged)
• VK_KHR_synchronization2 - !15413 (merged)
• VK_EXT_texture_compression_astc_hdr - not required