miext/sync: Make struct _SyncObject::initialized fully ABI compatible

With a 32-bit build, putting the initialized field at the end of the
struct bumped the struct size from 20 bytes to 24, changing the layout
of other structs embedding struct _SyncObject. While this would be
acceptable on master, it caused crashes with 1.20.

Making the initialized field a char and putting it in the hole before
the beingDestroyed field restores the 32-bit ABI as well.

Fixes xorg/xserver#892

Reviewed-by: Aaron Plattner <aplattner@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Goins <agoins@nvidia.com>
(cherry picked from commit 0d8cc7bb)
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