ovs: fail device only when it's activating

It doesn't make sense to fail a device that is not activating.

Especially, if the device was in state UNMANAGED, it would enter state
FAILED (and then DISCONNECTED) or ACTIVATED (when external or
assumed); both are wrong.

https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=2077950
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