The wl_buffer reference counting API has been inconsistent. You would
manually increment the refcount and register a destroy listener, as
opposed to calling weston_buffer_post_release(), which internally
decremented the refcount, and then removing a list item.

Replace both cases with a single function:
weston_buffer_reference(weston_buffer_reference *ref, wl_buffer *buffer)

Buffer is assigned to ref->buffer, while taking care of all the refcounting
and release posting. You take a reference by passing a non-NULL buffer, and
release a reference by passing NULL as buffer. The function uses an
internal wl_buffer destroy listener, so the pointer gets reset on
destruction automatically.

This is inspired by the pipe_resource_reference() of Mesa, and modified
by krh's suggestion to add struct weston_buffer_reference.

Additionally, when a surface gets destroyed, the associated wl_buffer
will send a release event. Often the buffer is already destroyed on
client side, so the event will be discarded by libwayland-client.

Compositor-drm.c is converted to use weston_buffer_reference.

Signed-off-by: Pekka Paalanen <ppaalanen@gmail.com>